Start Stop being so accommodating

Stop being so accommodating

In fact, throughout my life I've tried my best to be kind, caring, empathetic and helpful to just about everyone I meet.

In a 2012 survey of employers by the job placement firm OI Partners, being a team player -- as in, flexible and helpful -- was the top-valued quality in an employee. A 2011 study found that couples who reported a high level of generosity in their relationship were five times more likely to say their marriage was very happy.

He didn't insult my approach, just stated that it's hardcore and intimidating to a lot of people.

He's probably right, but me making a soft, mainstream fitness DVD is like asking Harley to model his musical style after Justin Timberlake in order to hit the mainstream market! It means not being genuine, and when you're not genuine people pick up on it.

By Mike Mahler"I don't think you were put here to please everybody; that would be horrible.